Think about the mood you want to set. What words describe your wedding? Dramatic? Fun? Sweet? Opulent? Colors are a powerful way of influencing people’s moods, so you’ll want to choose colors that get you and your guests in the right mindset. If a color you love doesn’t seem right for the mood you’re trying to create (say, pale pink for a dramatic wedding), that’s OK — balance it out with one or two (deep purple, gold) that can set that tone.
One area in particular Valentine suggests reimagining is the bridal bouquet. “I love flowers but can’t quite grasp the wedding tradition that stipulates that you carry a bouquet that often blocks the most intricate detailing on your wedding gown,” she says. For one bride, Valentine created a long cascade of orchids that hung to her side, allowing the focus to remain on her light-pink trumpet gown..
One thing you will probably notice that really stands out when looking at photographers websites is that their prices vary wildly. Should we assume that if one charges $10K and another charges $2K, the more expensive one will be five times better? Should be at least better, ya think? Guess what…prices aren’t necessarily commensurate with quality.
I could (and probably will) devote an entire future article to why prices vary so greatly. However, if a photographer is high priced, you should have a reasonable expectation of great work. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t expect good work at any price, but with one exception:
The exception is that with novices, you’d be wise to lower your expectations.
I’m starting to see some newbie photographers on Craigslist who are advertising shooting for free. Obviously, they are just trying to build a portfolio and there is nothing wrong with that. I’m not saying a noob won’t do a good job. Although we all have to start somewhere, it’s your memories of what I’m sure you are hoping is a once-in-a-lifetime-event, so, just be cautious. I recommend using a novice photographer only if that is all you can possibly afford.
For the ultimate spring bouquet, mix large, dramatic flowers with little tiny ones, in pretty citrusy spring colors. The blend of big and small flowers creates that just-picked-from-the-garden look that’s all the rage for springtime weddings
Set the date! Some people seem to forget this part, but it’s quite essential.
12 months before: Book your ceremony and reception venue(s) and officiant (if necessary). This is the most important thing, so you can relax after this is done.
6-9 months before: Book your other vendors (caterer, florist, photographer, baker, DJ, etc.).
6 months before: Order the bride’s and bridesmaids’ dresses. Book your honeymoon.
3-6 months before: Send out your invitations. Arrange dress fittings and reserve tuxedo rentals if needed.
3 months before: Order your wedding rings. Start confirming final arrangements with your vendors and schedule any trials necessary (eg. hair and makeup, food, etc).
1 month before: Write your speeches and make your table plan. Apply for a marriage license if needed.
On the day itself: Someone needs to make sure everything is set up ready for the big event. It’s preferable that this person isn’t you, because no matter how calm and collected you think you will be, you’ll probably have quite a few butterflies to contend with that day!
